The Dangers of Playing it Safe

You don’t have to go far to hear the dangers of taking risks.  When I was young, I was taught about “stranger danger”.  As I got older, people told me about the threats to travelers. We’re reminded of them every day in the news.  Turn on the TV and it won’t take long to find […]

Please Take My 2014 Reader Survey

It’s hard to believe, but I’m only about a month away from the four year anniversary for this blog! It’s been a long, crazy journey.  When I first started, I only had a handful of people visit every week.  Now I have thousands of regular readers. Many of you have reached out to me through […]

6 Things I Loved About Mardi Gras in New Orleans

When I was in college, I put going to Mardi Gras on my bucket list.  The opportunity to do heavy drinking and party with a lot of topless women was very appealing. My circumstances have changed a lot since then.  I rarely drink now and I’m married, so picking up women just isn’t going to […]

Be Like Water

Life is full of resistance.  There are obstacles and barriers all trying to keep you away from reaching your dreams and goals. My advice to you is this: be like water. Well, it’s actually not my advice.  The source for this comes from a forty year old interview with martial arts star Bruce Lee. Most […]

8 Reasons to Never Give Up

I’ve accomplished quite a few things in my life.  Over the years, I’ve learned to set big goals and take solid actionable steps in order to make them happen. But as I look back on everything I’ve done, I can’t help notice how many of them I had seriously considered giving up. In fact, some […]

Why Being Rich Is Not Necessary for a Good Life

What’s the one obstacle holding you back from living the life you want? Without hearing your responses, I can already tell that money is probably mentioned far more than anything else. How do I know this?  I hear it all the time. “If I only had enough money, I could…” “I could live the life […]

How to be Disciplined and Focused When Your Dreams Overwhelm You

*Note: This is a guest post by Vishnu of Vishnu’s Virtues. “One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in particular.” – Tony Robbins As someone who toiled […]