Author: Steve Bloom

My Crazy, Stressful, Wonderful Year: 2015 in Review

Happy New Year

If you think about it, there’s no real reason to celebrate the coming of a new year. Its basic function is to commemorate the full circle of our planet’s rotation around the sun. We’re not remembering any particular historical or religious event or celebrating a national hero so the day seems hardly worth caring about.

Yet, I have to admit there’s something satisfying about seeing our calendar move up another number. When I see that date tick up one more year, I feel optimistic about what lies ahead; it’s a reminder of all the years I have to live and the good things still waiting for me to discover; that idea feels uplifting and hopeful.

Perhaps this feeling of optimism is due to the year I’ve had. I will always remember 2015 as the year that changed my life forever. In April, my little boy, Desmond, was born, making me a brand new father with all the caring, stress and sleepless nights that it entails.

As you might have noticed, I haven’t posted much this year. Well, Desmond’s a big reason for that. When he arrived, I decided to take an impromptu break away from blogging so I could focus entirely on family for a while. Now that things are settled here, I feel I can come back, although my posting might still be a little sporadic at first.

To get back into the swing of things, it would be good to let you know what I’ve been up to these past few months. Here are some of the highlights from this year:

1. Writing. I released a new (free) eBook – 10 Ways to Travel Endlessly (you can still get it free). The feedback has been very positive. With all the work and research that went into it, I’m thrilled to hear so many people raving about it.

2. Not only did I get a baby in 2015, but my family and I moved across the country, from Houston to Milwaukee. New baby and moving – two of the most stressful events that can happen in life and I did them both at once. Honestly, I’m surprised I’ve kept my sanity so intact.

3. Travel. Even with the baby, I’ve done a lot of traveling. The relocation gave us the opportunity for a road trip so we say Arkansas, Tennessee, Kentucky, Ohio, Michigan, Indiana, Illinois and Wisconsin. The highlight of that trip was Mammoth Caves in KY, huge – so huge.

4. International travel. In January, I went to Turkey to see Istanbul and Ephesus. Pammukale was amazing – go see it if you go to Turkey. My wife was pregnant at the time so our son wasn’t born yet, but we have his passport and are making plans for his first international trip next year.

5. I read over 60 books, more than one a week.

6. I reached my goal of reading every book by John Steinbeck , 19 in total. Plus, on a whim, I read every book by Malcolm Gladwell.

7. I finished my goal of reading every play by William Shakespeare finishing with The Tempest. 39/39 plays. This goal has been in the works for several years now.

8. Minimalism. In preparation for the move, my wife and I donated so much that we actually had to rent a van to drop everything off. It always feels so good to get rid of clutter.

9. I gave up alcohol this year. I did it as an experiment and I actually don’t miss it much.

10. I took in some masterpieces at the symphony and some new art museums.

11. I finished the first draft of my novel and I’m making my way through the second draft.

Goals and Thoughts for 2016

I’ve been carefully considering where to take my son on his first international trip (suggestions on good countries to take a baby are welcome in the comment section below). My wife and I are leaning towards Europe or Central America as a good starting point – nothing is concrete at the moment.

My wife and I already have our baby’s passport; we got it months ago. He’s already a natural traveler – curious, friendly and he’s only cried once on the dozen or so flights he’s already been on.

I’m excited to finish my novel which should happen sometime next year. With the new baby, I haven’t had as much time to write, but work on my novel has been accelerating lately. I’m very excited to finish the second draft.

Since I finished reading everything by John Steinbeck and Shakespeare, I’ve decided to read another celebrated author, William Faulkner. So I’ll be reading everything by him in mostly chronological order. We’ll see how far I get into his books this time next year.

I plan on posting more frequently in 2016. Writing is an important part of my life, something I’m passionate about and I plan to keep updating this blog as much as possible.

Best Posts of the Year

This is an abbreviated list since I took so much time off, but here are some posts I’m really proud of.

Kurt Vonnegut’s Powerful Advice for Life: How to Grow Your Soul

7 Life Lessons from the Man Who Saved Over One Billion Lives

Your Beautiful Life Will Expand When You Eliminate the Excess

7 Reasons to Do that Crazy Thing You’ve Always Wanted to Do

Do That Crazy Things You've Always Wanted to DoTwo of my friends are starting off on a grand journey soon. In a few weeks, they’re quitting their jobs and taking six months off to travel around the world. It took them years to save up the money, but they’ve finally earned enough to take the leap.

Some people have called their plans a little crazy. Yes, it’s a big risk, but I still think they’re making the right choice.

Sometimes you just have to do that thing you’ve always wanted to do.

I can sympathize with them; I’ve done some crazy things over the years too.

  • I started a blog with the goal to reach thousands of readers without first learning much about how blogging even works.
  • I traveled all the way to Casablanca, Morocco to teach at a school I’d never been to.
  • I spent a ton of money (almost all of my savings) on IVF which only offered a 50% chance of working.
  • I flew to Belize so I could swim with sharks in the open ocean.
  • I’ve started copying “The Great Gatsby” word for word into a Word doc because I heard Hunter S. Thompson did it to improve his writing.

They’re all things people thought were a little on the crazy side, but something inside of me just felt like my life would somehow be incomplete if I never got around to doing them.

I often hear from people who have that same urge to pursue a long-held goal, but can’t find any good reason to start. It’s as if they’re looking for that one specific reason that will justify their decision.

I’ve never had a tough time coming up with some good reasons. Here are some of the best ones.

1. You only have one life to make it happen – do it or live with the regret

To me, living a good life is about minimizing the chance of regret. I don’t want to reach the end and look back only to wonder what might have been.

No matter what goal you have, there will be reasons not to do it – the fears and doubts holding you back or the excuses you give to quit.

But when you reach the end of your life, all those reasons will pale in comparison to the sharp pang of regret.

Here’s the truth: your life is ending one day at a time. Everything you ever want to do has to take place in the brief existence you’re given to live.

When you take a close look at your options, there should be little room for anything but taking action. Even if it turns out badly, I’d do it – I at least tried to make it happen.

As John Green once said, “What’s the point of being alive if you don’t at least try to do something remarkable?”

2. It will make you happy

Just knowing that you had the courage to do something crazy is life-affirming. It can fill you with a sense of accomplishment that few other activities can.

When your goal or project is finished, you’ll have the rest of your life to look back on it with a newfound sense of satisfaction and fulfillment. You made it happen. Few things give you the same sense of pride as the knowledge that you faced down all your obstacles and took a chance.

3. Do it for no specific reason at all

When George Mallory made his attempt to be the first person to climb Mt. Everest, a reporter asked him why he wanted to do it. He famously replied, “Because it’s there.”

Weirdly enough, this is sometimes the only reason you need.

I like to think rationally through all my decisions, but sometimes you just have to throw it all out the window and do it “just because.”

Sometimes the task or project itself can provide all the meaning you need. It can be enough to do something crazy simply because it gives us a sense of purpose and direction.

4. You never know what good things will happen

It’s amazing how often taking action can open up opportunities you never realized were there.

When you’re on the verge of doing something new, the uncertainty surrounding it can be frightening; you don’t know what will happen.

But there’s a positive side to uncertainty. It also clouds all the new paths that might be waiting for you.

Amazing things can happen when you put yourself out there. The experience you gain from it might introduce you to a new idea, person or thought that leads your life down an unexpected, wonderful path you never knew existed.

5. You’ll grow more as a person than you can imagine

Doing something crazy can seem daunting. There might be organizational issues or time management to contend with, not to mention any external or internal obstacles.

But with each step you take to make it happen, you learn and grow as a person.

Overcoming obstacles builds knowledge and confidence. Each fear and doubt you shake off builds a tough mental attitude.

Growth occurs from challenges. When you tackle more than you’re used to, you’ll become so much more than you’ve ever known.

6. Passionately pursuing it will make you feel alive

Every one of my crazy goals has been a labor of passion. Passion is what sustains me and keeps me moving and working on a project – it’s what makes me excited and feel alive.

When you set a crazy goal that is uniquely your own, you don’t feel like you have to work on it, you get to work on it – a huge difference.

Immersing yourself in something you love to do is good for the spirit as well as the mind. You wake up looking forward to what the new day is about to bring – and that feeling is priceless.

Do it because the thought of it excites you. Do it because it consumes your time and thoughts. When you fill your life with something you’re passionate about, it can feel so enriching and fulfilling.

7. It’s freeing – you start to wonder what else you’re capable of doing

There comes a moment right after you finish a goal or project – something crazy you never thought you could do.

After it’s all done, you look back on everything you thought was holding you back – the fears, doubts and excuses. What once seemed so real now only seems insubstantial and out of touch with reality. All those reasons holding you back might even seem silly with what you know now.

Then a magical thing happens. Your mind drifts to other thoughts – other crazy dreams and aspirations. There’s an assortment of fears, doubts and excuses with them too – only now your view of them has changed, they don’t seem as real or formidable.

Every time you finish something you once thought was impossible, you strengthen the idea that you’re capable of more than you know.

Instead of seeing limitations and barriers, the world becomes open and free. Instead of telling yourself you can’t do something, you start to understand your autonomy and self-determination.

Eventually you start to realize that there’s less holding you back than once thought – and that’s an incredibly freeing idea.
photo credit: Alex Indigo

Walt Disney’s Magical Strategy for Being Excellent in Everything

Walt Disney Plussing It

Disney is one of history’s greatest innovators. He was the first person to add sound and color to his animated films. While everyone else was making cartoon shorts, he dared to make a full-length animated movie, Snow White, which turned into a massive hit.

When he made Bambi, he took it even further. In order to draw realistic-looking animals, he hired an expert on anatomy to teach the animators. Then he actually created a small zoo on the studio lot so they could observe animals directly.

Still unsatisfied, he paid photographers to go out into the wild to capture scenes of deer and rabbits in their natural habitat.

The results speak for themselves. Compared to earlier animation, Bambi was groundbreaking in its realism.

This story perfectly highlights one of Disney’s pioneering ideas – something he called “plussing”.

When he talked to his imagineers or employees about their projects, he would often tell them to “plus it.”

They knew what he meant; he was asking them to take their ideas or plans to the next level. He knew there was always another notch to move up in order to turn something good into something excellent.

Disney successfully used this idea repeatedly throughout his career. Walt plussed everything from his animation to customer service and even his theme park rides.

With the help of “plussing” Disney created a multi-billion dollar company known for its quality and pursuit of excellence.

There’s an inspiring lesson in Disney’s idea of “plussing”. His constant search for improvement and betterment is something we can all learn from. What if we used it in our everyday lives?

So what exactly does “plussing” mean?

Make Good Details Into Great Ones

One important part of “plussing” was placing a high importance on details.

On many rides, he would spend hours optimizing the tiniest sound effects. On another ride, a mahjong game was set up at the beginning. Rather than have the tiles spread out haphazardly, he hired actual players to play a game and stop half way so it looked authentic.

Any project Disney worked on might have hundreds or thousands of small details to oversee. He knew that an improvement to one wouldn’t mean much, but improving a thousand would mean a huge difference.

Take a look at this graph to see what a 1% improvement to thousands of small details does over time.

Details Matter

Details matter simply because there are so many of them. By taking time to improve as many as possible, Disney would bring out the excellence in any project.

Disney animators even came up with a term for this obsession to details which they called “bumping the lamp.”

It refers to a scene in Who Framed Roger Rabbit (watch it, it’s such a small detail, but makes the scene better) when Roger is bouncing around and interacting with the live objects. The lamp in the scene is constantly bumping and swaying even between cuts.

It was time consuming to keep the continuity of this lamp swinging correctly between shots and hardly anyone in the audience would notice if it wasn’t right, but this detail – along with the other amazing details in the movie – add up to a unique and wonderful experience.

People usually forget about details since they can be easily ignored. But if you think about it, there is a lot of power in them.

For example, imagine plussing your workouts. There are countless small details with your routine, nutrition or form to make slight improvements. Even the smallest improvement to every detail would benefit your workouts dramatically.

Even recently I’ve been plussing my website by focusing on the details – most of them are things people would never notice – such as font size, font type and deleting unnecessary parts to make the reader experience more enjoyable.

Each small change doesn’t mean much alone, but they’ve all added up to a noticeable difference. People are staying longer and more readers are subscribing.

Go Above and Beyond Expectations

Another key component to Walt Disney’s “plussing” is exceeding expectations.

Shortly after Walt Disney opened his theme park, he decided to hold a Christmas parade. When he totaled up the expense, he realized his idea and vision would cost the park roughly $350,000.

His accountants begged him not to spend the money because the people would already be there; nobody would complain if it didn’t happen because no one was expecting it.

Disney’s response was,

We should do it precisely because no one’s expecting it. Our goal at Disneyland is to always give people more than they expect. As long as we keep surprising them, they’ll keep coming back. But if they ever stop coming, it’ll cost us ten times that much to get them to come back”

Here’s the major takeaway from this story: always do more than what’s expected from everyone, including yourself.

If you think about it, meeting expectations means doing the bare minimum. Isn’t the bare minimum another way of saying mediocrity?

Look for ways to go above and beyond by doing what’s NOT expected of you. Just doing that little more can make all the difference between average and outstanding.

If you want a project to get noticed, do more than what’s expected.

For a better chance of getting a promotion at work, you have to go above and beyond your normal duties.

If you want to build muscle in the gym, you have to work harder than normal.

Sometimes it can be something simple.

A few nights ago, I spent a romantic evening with my wife. Instead of doing our usual routine, I “plussed it” by darkening the room and lighting candles.

She wasn’t expecting it and she had no reason to think I’d do it. But that small addition made an otherwise typical romantic evening into something more magical. It actually brightened her day more than I possibly could have imagined.

Plus Everything

I’ve been using Disney’s ideas about “plussing” to improve as many things in my life as possible.

When you keep making small improvements here and there, you start to realize just how much more you could be doing.  There’s always something more to improve to take you beyond what you were doing before.

“Plussing” is just as much a philosophy as it is a mindset.  When you start to see all the improvements you could be making, you start to think and act in ways that will “plus it.”  As Disney once said, “Just do your best work – then try to trump it.”
photo credit: Andy Castro

Your Beautiful Life Will Expand When You Eliminate the Excess

Eliminate the Excess

For many people, a good life is about more.

More stuff. More things to do. More friends. More of everything.

For me, a good life is about less.

I moved from a big house into a small apartment. In the process, I donated or threw away many of the things I owned. I even donated my car – my wife and I just share one together.

I’ve cut out a lot of media. Other than a few shows, I don’t watch any cable TV. I’ve tried to cut time spent on my smartphone, especially to check Twitter and email. I deleted my Facebook app completely so I rarely check it.

This year I’ve even experimented with cutting out alcohol; I haven’t had a single drop since the beginning of the year – I actually really love it and I’m considering making this a permanent change.

But it’s more than that.

I’ve cleared my mind of negative thinking and excuses (I’m working on complaining).

I’ve also cut toxic friends out of my life. Some have been friends for years which made it quite a difficult decision despite their negativity and destructive behavior.

Each step of the way, I made a conscious effort to cut out something that no longer fit what I wanted my life to be about.

The funny thing is that as I’ve continued to make these cuts, I’ve noticed quite the paradox:

The more things I cut out of my life, the bigger and grander it becomes.

If Less Is More Than More Is Less

Our lives are essentially built around limitations.

  • There are only so many things we can focus our attention on.
  • Our mental capacity and information-processing is limited.
  • We have a limited amount of tasks we can do every day.
  • Our discipline and willpower isn’t endless.
  • Then there’s time: we only get 24 hours a day – no matter what.

I’ve started to treat these limitations as they should be: valuable resources. If something is wasting one of them, I want to cut it out.

If it doesn’t improve life and isn’t important in some way, it just takes up valuable energy or time as excess – that’s space you could be using on something that truly matters.

Think of it this way.

Your life is like a cup of water. You can keep filling it up and up as much as you want, but eventually it will start to overflow. Whether it’s time, energy or focus, eventually your limits come into play and you can’t add any more to the cup – something will spill over and get lost in the process.

By trying to fill your cup with more, you’ll actually end up spilling some off the sides and getting less.

The trick is to look at the contents of the cup directly. Is all the water in there necessary?

Some of it might be dirty or tainted (things like negative thinking or toxic friends)

Some of it might be easily taken out to make room (time-wasting activities and tasks)

Some of it might be another liquid other than water (unnecessary distractions like checking email and Facebook or general clutter around the house)

Little by little, the excess water is taken out to make room. The cup can’t get larger, but you can make it seem larger simply by getting rid of the excess.

A Life Weighed Down With Excess

Some of the most successful people on the planet have already been adopting this idea of getting rid of excess to get more out of life.

For example, Mark Zuckerberg, Steve Jobs, Barack Obama and Einstein all cut down their wardrobe to one or two outfits so they had one less decision to make every day. Einstein argued that his brainpower and focus would be better spent elsewhere.

As it turns out, our decision-making ability can be weakened in a process known as “decision fatigue”. We may start off making good decisions, but if you make too many, you start to get bad at it. By cutting out excess decisions such as what to wear, you increase your ability to make better ones elsewhere..

It’s for this same reason that successful lawyers and businessmen delegate tasks to junior associates. They want to get rid of the excess tasks so they can focus their valuable time and energy on the things that matter most.

You Decide What Excess Is

Don’t get me wrong about this post. I’m not advocating that you should move out of your home or eliminate alcohol or TV. Just because these are things that I don’t want anymore, doesn’t mean that you don’t want them.

The point of this post is to get you thinking about what you’re filling your life with and deciding if it’s excess that could be eliminated. Start asking these questions:

Are there some things I can cut out to make room for the life I want?

What low-value tasks or activities are taking up my time that I can eliminate?

Are there toxic friends or thoughts I could get rid of?

What you decide is excess is up to you.

But by filling our lives with unnecessary busy-ness, distractions, tasks and clutter, we’re expending too much of our personal resources. That’s space we could be using to live the lives we actually want.

The best part about it is that by getting rid of the excess, you’ll find a renewed focus to your life. There will be more time and energy to spend on the things that matter most to you.

Many of us are already living a good life, but it’s covered up with a lot of unnecessary junk. By getting rid of the excess, you allow the life you want to expand.
photo credit: Chechi Peinado

7 Life Lessons from the Man Who Saved Over One Billion Lives

Norman Borlaug - The Man Who Saved One Billion Lives

Chances are that you’re not familiar with Norman Borlaug. He doesn’t have the household name of a famous movie star or pop singer, but, by the time he died in 2009, he was credited with saving the lives of over one billion people.

It all started so simply. In 1944 he moved to Mexico to work on a joint U.S.-Mexico agricultural program. A plant disease called “stem rust” was ravaging wheat fields; food was in short supply and the country was one crisis away from mass starvation.

Working tirelessly on the problem for ten years, he finally found a wheat strain that both resisted the disease and increased yields. His efforts dramatically increased wheat production, protecting millions of people from slowly dying of hunger.

But Norman Borlaug wasn’t finished.

He took his work to the Indian subcontinent where widespread famine was becoming a massive problem. In 1943 alone, the worst year, famine killed up to 4 million people in Bengal province.

But after just five years, he nearly doubled wheat yields in Pakistan and India, building their self-sufficiency in food. Later, Dr. Borlaug applied this same knowledge to rice in China and eventually a variety of crops across Africa.

For his efforts to end starvation, eliminate food insecurity and bring about world peace, Norman Borlaug was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1970. He’s been widely credited with saving more lives than any other person who has ever lived.

His story is a powerful reminder of the positive change one person can make; it never ceases to amaze and motivate me to become a better person. By observing his life and achievements, I’ve discovered many invaluable lessons from this truly inspiring man.

1. Just because a problem or goal doesn’t seem to have a solution, doesn’t mean there isn’t one

Initially, Dr. Borlaug’s problem was clear: more food needed to be grown to prevent mass starvation. The solution, however, was far from obvious, requiring ten years and over 6000 attempts to finally resolve the major issues.

Imagine working for that length of time, never knowing when (or if) you’ll reach the finish line. Day after day, you keep persevering, relying on belief and tenacity to push you forward.

Intractable problems and far-off goals are often ignored simply because there doesn’t seem to be a solution or end in sight. People tend to work on things they KNOW will work out.

But an unwillingness to pursue difficult goals and problems will only limit your true potential. It’s important to have faith in yourself that somehow you’ll find a way to the end. If Dr. Borlaug has shown anything, it’s that tenacity, effort and self-trust can work wonders..

2. Impossible is a only a problem for people with little imagination

What Dr. Borlaug did wasn’t just incredible, in some cases what he did was considered impossible. This is especially true of his farming strategy called “shuttle breeding”.

It’s a process whereby farmers would shuttle plants between themselves around the country to take advantage of the changing growing season. Instead of growing just one crop a year, every farmer could grow two.

When he proposed this idea to his colleagues, they shot it down as unrealistic; it defied the conventional understanding of agronomy. But he persevered anyway and pushed on, alone if necessary. Eventually he implemented a successful pilot program which confounded and astonished many of his contemporaries.

Most of us tend to see “impossible” as a fixed concept. But it actually changes and varies based upon new information and ways of thinking. Dr. Borlaug’s ideas contradicted the general principles of agronomy only because he thought of the problem in a new way that hadn’t been considered before.

“Impossible” is just another obstacle on the road to success. Those who do great things realize that “impossible” is often just an excuse for those unwilling to take on new challenges. With enough imagination and creativity, more and more of what we think is impossible will eventually be revealed for what it is: an illusion.

3. Closed opportunities can open up if you just keep persevering

“No” was a word Norman Borlaug heard most of his life. He heard it while proposing his idea of “seed shuttling”. He heard it when he wanted to expand his wheat program to all of Mexico. India and Pakistan, suspicious of his motivation, said no to him for years before finally letting him in.

Through it all, Dr. Borlaug never treated “no” as a final answer. Instead he looked at it as another challenge or obstacle to overcome. To him, “no” meant “not yet”. He knew that with enough persistence and effort, he would eventually succeed.

Here’s the lesson we can all learn: don’t treat no as a final answer. Situations change, people change, policies change – everything changes with time. Dedication and persistence to an idea or goal is what separates the successful from others. If it’s important enough for you, keep pushing on – because you never know when a “no” can change into a “yes” later on.

4. Greatness can come from anywhere and anyone

Who would have guessed that the solution to one of the world’s major problems would primarily come from one man? Out of the billions of people on the planet, one person rose to meet this seemingly insurmountable challenge – and won.

If his story proves anything, it’s that one person can make a powerful difference and do amazing things. With enough tenacity, drive and focus, we can all rise above our normal capabilities and achieve something astounding.

Don’t hold yourself back for any reason. Rather than settling for mediocrity and giving in to the idea of limitation, we should all strive for something greater. With focused energy and enough courage, fortitude and discipline, there’s no telling what you can accomplish.

5. One good action can have a million positive outcomes

When you consider how vast and complicated the world is, one good deed doesn’t seem to mean much.

But Norman Borlaug’s life epitomizes the concept of the “butterfly effect”. Just like the flapping of a butterfly’s wings can subtly change conditions until they become something much larger like a hurricane, our actions can have a similar effect.

Even if we fail to immediately perceive the effects of our behavior, our actions can subtly change our environment leading to bigger and bigger changes around us. One random act of kindness can make another person feel so good that they do one in turn. And so on and so on until your one act of kindness has impacted several lives around you.

Now imagine how many people’s lives you would impact with a lifetime of good deeds.

Dr. Borlaug’s beginnings were humble. At first, he was so determined to help that he even strapped on a plough in a field to work amongst Mexican farmers. But slowly, after a lifetime working for the good of others, he saved over one billion lives and made a positive difference in millions of others.

It didn’t happen overnight. Each good deed accumulated throughout the entire course of his life until one day he positively impacted the lives of about one in seven people around the planet.

This should give us pause to wonder: What good actions are you putting out into the world?

6. Selflessly working for others can lead you to an amazing life

Dr. Borlaug is only one of seven people to win the Nobel Peace Prize, the Presidential Medal of Freedom and Congressional Gold Medal. The others are Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Elie Wiesel, Nelson Mandela, Aung San Suu Kyi, Mother Teresa and (most recently) Muhammad Yunus.

Out of the entire list, Dr. Borlaug is arguably the least well-known. And that’s probably not surprising considering he didn’t work for fame or money. He simply saw people suffering and did what he felt was necessary to stop it.

It’s interesting to note that selflessly working for the good of others is a common theme amongst all seven people. Every one in that group were visionaries who dreamed of a better world and worked tirelessly to make it happen.

A noble, fulfilling life is one in which we give selflessly to others. We should all be looking for ways to make the world a better place – not for our own enrichment, but for the enrichment of others.

7. Remarkable actions bring out critics, doubters and liars every step of the way

Dr. Borlaug often considered his biggest obstacle to be, in his own words, “the constant pessimism and scare-mongering of skeptics.”

It wasn’t the endless research, the harsh living conditions or funding difficulties, but the endless stream of critics and naysayers who challenged him at every step.

Many critics claimed his work was futile; starvation was inevitable. Others dubiously asserted that poor rural farmers preferred their low living standards. Some of his harshest opponents even went as far as to sabotage and spread misinformation about his work.

As dark as it may seem, his experience says a lot about human nature. Our choices – whether to tackle challenging problems or make radical changes – is bound to bring out critics.

This will be true of anything remarkable you decide to accomplish. You’ll hear from more critics than supporters. Those who disagree most will speak loudest.

Their opposition will be the hardest obstacle. But if Norman Borlaug taught anything, it’s that those who succeed find a way to keep moving forward despite the negativity and pessimism. Sometimes the best way to silence your critics is through success.

23 Profound Quotes that Will Make You See Everything Differently

Strange New Perspective

I remember when I was a little child and the world seemed so strange and new. I wanted to know what was out there, what weird things could I learn.

When someone told me the Earth was just a giant rock floating in the middle of nothingness, I was taken aback – it blew my mind. But I wanted to know more.

To this day, I still look for new, strange perspectives and information about our world. It’s a weird and passionate quirk, but one that has lead me to some really fascinating discoveries.

Today I want to share with you some quotes that I hope will expand your own awareness, feed your curiosity about the world and maybe discover a little more about what life is all about.

“When you reach for the stars, you are reaching for the farthest thing out there. When you reach deep into yourself, it is the same thing, but in the opposite direction. If you reach in both directions, you will have spanned the universe.” – Vera Nazarian

“Some morning while your eating breakfast and you need something new to think about, though, you might want to ponder the fact that you see your kids across the table not as they are but as they once were, about three nanoseconds ago. – Neil DeGrasse Tyson

“Is it so bad, then, to be misunderstood? Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Harry Potter isn’t real? Oh no! Wait, wait, what do you mean by real? Is this video blog real? Am I real if you can see me and hear me, but only through the internet? Are you real if I can read your comment but I don’t know who you are or what your name is or where you’re from or what you look like or how old you are? I know all of those things about Harry Potter. Maybe Harry Potter’s real and you’re not.” – John Green

“Atoms are mainly empty space. Matter is composed chiefly of nothing.” – Carl Sagan

“Art and love are the same thing: It’s the process of seeing yourself in things that are not you.” – Chuck Klosterman

“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.” – Jim Morrison

“There’s nothing wrong with enjoying looking at the surface of the ocean itself, except that when you finally see what goes on underwater,you realize that you’ve been missing the whole point of the ocean. Staying on the surface all the time is like going to the circus and staring at the outside of the tent.” – Dave Barry

“When you get free from certain fixed concepts of the way the world is, you find it is far more subtle, and far more miraculous, than you thought it was.” – Alan Watts

“Over the course of your life you are actually hundreds of different people. You are a different person at the coffee shop than you are at the bar, and a different person for the dry cleaner than you are for your boyfriend, and a different person at work than you are on vacation. You are nobody in particular.” – Jenny Hollowell

“If you’ve never eaten while crying you don’t know what life tastes like.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“I believe in everything until it’s disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it’s in your mind. Who’s to say that dreams and nightmares aren’t as real as the here and now?” – John Lennon

“Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing ever happened.” – Winston S. Churchill

“Nothing, Everything, Anything, Something: If you have nothing, then you have everything, because you have the freedom to do anything, without the fear of losing something.” – Jarod Kintz

“The truth may be puzzling. It may take some work to grapple with. It may be counterintuitive. It may contradict deeply held prejudices. It may not be consonant with what we desperately want to be true. But our preferences do not determine what’s true.” – Carl Sagan

“There is neither happiness nor misery in the world; there is only the comparison of one state with another, nothing more. He who has felt the deepest grief is best able to experience supreme happiness.” – Alexandre Dumas

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” – Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

“We can never know what to want, because, living only one life, we can neither compare it with our previous lives nor perfect it in our lives to come.” – Milan Kundera

“Our brains contain one hundred billion nerve cells (neurons). Each neuron makes links with ten thousand other neurons to form an incredible three dimensional grid. This grid therefore contains a thousand trillion connections – that’s 1,000,000,000,000,000 (a quadrillion). It’s hard to imagine this, so let’s visualise each connection as a disc that’s 1mm thick. Stack up the quadrillion discs on top of each other and they will reach the sun (which is ninety-three million miles from the earth) and back, three times over.” – Nessa Carey

“If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is – infinite.” – William Blake

“Lots of people think, well, we’re humans; we’re the most intelligent and accomplished species; we’re in charge. Bacteria may have a different outlook: more bacteria live and work in one linear centimeter of your lower colon than all the humans who have ever lived. That’s what’s going on in your digestive tract right now. Are we in charge, or are we simply hosts for bacteria? It all depends on your outlook.” – Neil DeGrasse Tyson

“Every villain is a hero in his own mind.” – Tom Hiddleston

“Stars, too, were time travelers. How many of those ancient points of light were the last echoes of suns now dead? How many had been born but their light not yet come this far? If all the suns but ours collapsed tonight, how many lifetimes would it take us to realize we were alone? I had always known the sky was full of mysteries—but not until now had I realized how full of them the earth was.” – Ransom Riggs
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The Wonderful Reality of Not Having Life All Figured Out

Don't Have Life all Figured Out?

I don’t have life all figured out.

That’s not to say I don’t have a good life. I’m a respected writer, my marriage is wonderful, I travel regularly and I have a son on the way. I’m happy with the way things are going.

But this hasn’t always been the case. A few years ago, while I was graduating with my Master’s degree, I went through a short period of turmoil. I was stressed out and uncertain of the direction my life was taking. I felt lost and confused.

It’s only been through hard soul-searching, consistent effort and a dash of luck to get where I am today.

And I’m fully aware that life has a tendency to make radical changes without your consent. What’s good for me today might change tomorrow.

So even though things are going well right now, I still wouldn’t say I have life figured out.

To be honest, I don’t see life as something you can “figure out” anyway.

Talking about life as something to “figure out” makes it sound as if it’s a toaster you can simply take apart to see how all the components work. Life doesn’t come with an easy guide to reference when it gets out of whack.

Life is a complex beast with intricate workings that are constantly changing. Once you think you’ve figured out the rules, an invisible hand comes along and changes them so you have to relearn them all over again.

That invisible hand has changed how I live many times. Shortly after I learned how to live as a bachelor, I had to learn the rules of a solid marriage. Now that I know how to do that, I have to learn the much different rules of being a good father.

My circumstances and situations have changed so consistently over the past few years that I’ve been basically improvising my way through it all, learning as I go.

This isn’t new either. My life has gone through a constant series of changes and I’ve been improvising my way the entire time.

Shakespeare once wrote that “all the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players.”

If Shakespeare’s right and our lives are akin to acting on the stage, then our performance is pure improv. There’s no playwright handing us scripts to read from. This thing we call life is done purely on the fly.

That’s not just me. Everyone around us is just making it all up as they go.

By definition, improv is something you can’t predict. Someone or something will always come along to change the scene or dialogue. All you can do is adjust and adapt to the new situation presented to you.

So in that sense, life is an act of creation. By adjusting to new situations and interacting with others and our environment, we’re creating something new every single day.

So if life is a creative process, that makes it much closer to art than science.

And while I’m a big fan of science and I think it’s an extremely useful and valuable tool for making our lives better, it has its limitations.

It has little to offer in terms of meaning. What direction should my life take? What values are important to me? Who am I as a person?

These are all forms of self-discovery. Our answers are personal and might be confusing to outsiders and even ourselves. These subjective viewpoints are beyond science’s capabilities to explain.

That’s life though; it’s a giant mystery. We’re constantly exploring and experimenting our way to full, happy lives. There’s too much uncertainty about the future and personal changes to go through to completely say you’ve figured it out.

But really, would you want it to be any other way?

If living is art, then we should all heed the wisdom of Edward Abbey: “great art is never perfect. Perfect art is never great.”

Life is imperfect – it’s much too complex to be otherwise. We don’t always get what we want. Sometimes what we strive for doesn’t succeed.

But maybe that’s exactly the way it should be.

Perhaps a good life is one where we fumble and experiment our way through it. There isn’t anything wrong with making more errors than successes. Even the best artists accept that they’ll make a lot of bad art throughout their careers. That’s the process of making good art – and good living.

As you live your life, you’ll make mistakes. Even the greatest improv actors occasionally flub their lines or make silly, stupid errors.

In fact, the minute you’ve figured out life is the time to sit back and re-examine your situation. You might just be missing something.

And remember this: great lives are a lot like art – it may never be perfect, you may never be able to fully understand it, but once your masterpiece is finished, you can sit back in awe over your unique and wonderful creation. As weird as it may sound, that idea makes me grateful that I can’t figure it all out.
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